sounds good you guys. nice to read what you think, all of which makes sense to me.
even though i'm a beginner, i put my heart into surfing, and i do the same for the things i do, i.e. my job.
i currently work as a summer camp counselor, and lately have been running into some self-doubt.
i love making the kids happy, but feel so useless and inadequate when they're unhappy. a friend of mine explained to me that it's not my job to make them happy, it is up to them to make themselves happy.
while of course it's my duty to accomodate them, make them feel comfortable and enjoy themselves while guiding them, how does that not include making them happy? or is there a limitation to that?
i think my maternal instincts are perhaps too overbearing..?