Sometimes we lose sight of what a great thing surfing is because we are just trying too hard to do a little bit better. Forget the surfing goals for just a little while.
You have children by your Avatar and the whole world can seem a little mojoless when we have so much to do and surfing seems to have a to do list as well.
If you can arrange it, ease the household stuff and have the children settled and head to the beach either by yourself or with a surfing buddy. Just take the time to sit brerath and take it all in and then go out to surf with only one thing in mind FUN
. Nogoals of what to do comfortable size waves and while you are surfing just breath and appreciate that you have the time and space to do what you just did.
Alternately visit your non surfing friends, see how their dry land mojo is going, might be some insight. A day of ordinary surfing is a lot better than a lot of ordinary days.
Even go out on a body board and just have FUN
I've taken up troll hunting just for fun, instead of a rifle I'll just use a pun!