viewtopic.php?f=4&t=15273 there's some good advice in there.
I can't really help you with my experience at the moment as I am still livin with my family quite far away from the beach. I am just trying to get a job first so then I can set myself up.
I am looking to head to Manly (I have looked at Coogee, Maroubra and Bondi) but to me Manly looks like a real nice place (a little more expensive but I think its gonna be worth it). Everything in Manly is only a 15min walk, that includes the beach, pubs, shops and buses and ferries to city.
Also at Manly you also have easy access to the abundance of surf spots up the northern beaches (obviously easier when you have a car)
http://www.wannasurf.com/spot/Australia ... index.html but as far as actually surfing them I have only managed to get out for 3-4 surfs since arriving here

once at Maroubra which was aight, once at Dee-Why which was fun as hell (the wave wasn't even that great, was real sucky and the majority closeouts) and the other 2 have been at Manly (both aight but nothing special - there is a pretty bad flat spell here at the moment, so yea)
But dude keep in touch, coz my mate is hopefully joining me over here from NZ sometime in May, when I finally get a f**king job hahaha and a temp flat (coz he got no family here, so gonna crash at mine hopefully) anyways you sound like a good dude and hopefully my mate will have a job by then so we will be looking for a place. So if you choose Manly we could rent a 3 bedroom apartment on the beach or a house or whatever and could get each other up for these morning whole flat surfs before work

and then ferry to city for work

well that's my plans anyway as I said when I get a job.